The Pursuit of Happiness

Still a dreamer, yet more of a realist than ever before, I knew this was my time to sail. On the horizon I saw the shining future, as before. The difference now was that I felt the wind at my back. I was ready.~ Chris Gardner, The Pursuit of Happyness

In the moment of conception, we enter into this world alone, unaware of what is happening around us. We are oblivious to our surroundings, and of all the newness that is about to occur.  The five senses—taste, sight, touch, smell, and hearing become a journey of discovery throughout the aging process as children. We are at complete peace, oneness with the experience of life.      

There is such an innocence and pureness when we are young.  Happiness, confidence, and self-worth are etched into our core.  We are fearless, speak our mind and have no concern to what others think about us. There is a sense of resilience and creativity is what makes the soul blossom. 

We see at a young age how children are painters, chefs, writers, and teachers.  As one develops from being a toddler to adolescence and finally an adult there are many twists and turns.  We sometimes forget who we once were and what truly made us content.       

The Pursuit of Happiness

Let us liberate ourselves from any form of control. Let us focus at the inner drum, where the rhythm aligns with that of our heart. The measure of responsibility, equals to the need for evolution. Just listen, the inner child, let it whisper in your ear. ~Grigoris Deoudis

Are we born happy or do we have to work at it?  Is it a conscious choice we make?

These are the questions that have been pondering over the past few months.  I believe that the pursuit of happiness and experiencing it is an internal process and there are times we have to work towards creating it.  There are numerous times when I would mask emotions of fear, anger or envy in order to keep that happy momentum. I was not being authentic whatsoever and felt like I was avoiding parts of myself. 

The Pursuit of Happiness: Life’s Greatest Choice

I do believe happiness comes naturally when we are in alignment and we follow our hearts desires. When those moments happen, I bask in them and remind myself of the simple pleasures of life.   

Are we a product of our environment and does epigenetics play a role in our development? 

I’m in no way a physician, however, believe we absorb characteristics from our family relationships that determine some of our innate behaviors.  Becoming an emotionally intelligent adult is clearing those blockages and experiences we endured as children.  We are cleansing our spirits as we gain self-awareness and personal power. 

We may blame our parents however there will be a time when you will see them as your teachers who gave you unconditional love.  As they say, the spiritual journey is coming home to yourself. 

As we get older, finish our education and follow a certain path –  we live a certain way even though internally we have a deeper longing.  We get caught up in the routine, work-life balance and forget about the importance of connecting with others. 

Is happiness in a job, car, relationship, or material status?  Is that what makes life meaningful or is there something more?

You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of.  You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.~Albert Camus

There is something more!

I attended a Buddhist Monk Meditation in February and it gave me the direction I have been seeking, along with inspiration for the remainder of this article.  What I learned from that significant meditation is that INNER PEACE = HAPPINESS! Meditation brings you back to your core of who you are and that stillness is the key to your happiness. 

Where are you on your pursuit of happiness?

I’m in the process of applying the principle of non-attachment to situations and outcomes. By just being still is the source of happiness.

Here is the insight from the meditation session that has ignited clarity into my life:

• We all have attachments, fears unfilled desires and this creates inner turmoil.  Breathe into your discomfort and surrender.  Inhale white light and exhale black particles that do not serve you
• When you are wavering into anxiety or stress learn to get touch with your feelings
• You have all the wisdom and knowledge within when you meditate answers appear
• Stop going outside yourself and trust your divinity
• Stay close to the center of your heart, the mind is like a diamond, nurture it, feed it and water it with love
• Let go of expectations to the way you think life should be and be so engrossed in the presence
• Appreciate silence, it is connected to your soul
• Love and self-love is the antidote you are seeking

I leave you with the story of Gautama Buddha.  He was born into a wealthy upper-class family in India surrounded by prestige and influence.   Buddha was ian nquisitive spirit and knew there was a deeper meaning to life and would ultimately forge his own path.  One day, he decided to leave and became a humble man who lived the life of an ascetic. 

As Buddha detached from everything, is when he felt truly rich.  Meditation, prayer and living a simple life is what transformed his soul.  Remember it’s your internal happiness that makes your soul light up just like the stars in the galaxy.

Is there a simple remedy for happiness?  Why are we always in constant pursuit of happiness?  This concept, the pursuit of happiness finally made sense  – I had an epiphany! 

The pursuit of happiness is not a destination, its a choice we make daily.  It truly is the little things that add up to making us smile.  Come back to your inner child, remember who you once were at that young age.  Embrace that care-free, radiant soul who lived in pure joy.  Make time and space for meditation, the more you practice you will settle into peace.    

The greatest achievement is selflessness.
The greatest worth is self-mastery.
The greatest quality is seeking to serve others.
The greatest precept is continual awareness.
The greatest medicine is the emptiness of everything.
The greatest action is not conforming with the worlds ways.
The greatest magic is transmuting the passions.
The greatest generosity is non-attachment.
The greatest goodness is a peaceful mind.
The greatest patience is humility.
The greatest effort is not concerned with results.
The greatest meditation is a mind that lets go.
The greatest wisdom is seeing through appearances. ~Atisa

Now, I’d love to know your take on the pursuit of happiness, and where you are at right now? Feel free to share away in the comments bellow.

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