I used to dream, wish, hope for an amazing life. Not just an okay life, but a ridiculously amazing life. When I was younger that dream had me rolling in style, of course, with fabulous clothes, a big house, and a fast car. As I grew older and wiser, the material wants and needs in my dream changed. I simply wanted to be excited to get out of bed. But that wasn’t happening.

I was living within a shell of myself.  Sleep, wake, crawl out of bed, work, eat, sleep & repeat. And repeat. And repeat.

I found myself caught in the vortex of boredom with my dreams of a different life on hold. I was stuck. Not unhappy,  just stuck. Like an overcooked pot of pasta… heavy, uninspired and pasty. That heaviness was not only settling in my behind, it was finding its way into my heart. And all I wanted to do was sleep. And eat. And then sleep some more.

This was my own fault. I had built a decently successful business, I had wonderful clients, friends, family and all that fun stuff. I was living in the suburbs of heaven with a nice car, good home… and it was killing me. I was slowly and surely dying inside. Because I was unmotivated, uninspired and unfulfilled. I was a walking, talking empty shell.

Like a pretty puppet, I moved, I acted, I responded, but if you would have taken the time to knock on my shell, you would have heard the resounding echo of an empty inside.

So what did I do? I woke up, took a hard look at my life and told myself to snap out of it.

I made the decision to step back into my life. To take the bull by the horns and take charge of my life. No more excuses. No more blame. It was time to start living from the heart.

It was then that my life started to become a bit more amazing. I started to become a bit more amazing.

5 Ways to Make Your Life Ridiculously Amazing

And, yes, it was that simple. The decision, that is. I realized that the only way out of my spiraling vortex of unfulfillment was through me. In order to create the life I dreamed of, I had to be the one to change.

I couldn’t blame anyone for my choices, my dissatisfaction, my growing ass. I had to turn the mirror around and face myself. And at first, I peeked, not wanting to face myself. But as time went on and I did the work, that mirror started to shine and reflect a happier me. And now, I can proudly say that I have fully and completely stepped into my life. And I try to do at least one thing to make my life ridiculously amazing each and every day and I hope you will do the same.

I can proudly say that I have fully and completely stepped into my life. And I try to do at least one thing to make my life ridiculously amazing each and every day and I hope you will do the same.

Here are 5 ways to step into your life and make it ridiculously amazing:

1. Move

As in move, breathe, sweat. You can’t be ridiculously amazing borrowing a hole into your couch or glued to your computer screen. (I know this because I tried. Massive fail! And what makes matters worse, that decently successful business I ran was a fitness business. How sad is that? I was inspiring others to move but couldn’t get myself on board!)

You have to get up and get your ass moving! Get the blood flowing, muscles fired up and the energy levels inspired. And a million excuses you will come up, shelf them. If you can walk to the fridge, you can move. I’m not asking you to hop off the couch and run a marathon… go for a walk, dance, do yoga… something. Just move. And then while you’re doing so, move on to number 2.

2. Check in and take notice

One thing that is consistent is that life is continuously changing. And it will pass you by in the blink of an eye if you don’t take notice of it. Start by checking in and paying attention to the little things that happen on a daily basis.  I take the same route every day to teach and each time I notice something different. It didn’t use to be this way.

I used to drive mindlessly to clients homes or to appointments and find myself 10 km down the highway with no recollection of what just passed me by. I had created a cozy vacuum of numbness that had me periodically checking out of life. Now I pay attention. I check in and stay present. So that even when I’m doing the dishes, it becomes a mini adventure.

I’ve noticed that anything can and will happen, but it’s up to me to take notice. So open your eyes, ears, mind. Rediscover your senses. When you pause and actually notice the little things, what you see might surprise you.

3. Love

Sweet juicy love. Get the love juice flowing for your friends, family, partner, pets. Basically anyone or thing that shares your space. Try to sweeten the pot with some unconditional love. Pets, easy. People, maybe not so much so try to practice first and foremost on YOUrself. Drown yourself in a giant pot of love juice. Be kind & nourishing to yourself in deliciously healthy ways.

When we start to treat ourselves as though we are worthy, we set amazing things in motion. After all, we can’t tap into love if we don’t love ourselves first.

4.Play

Remember that four letter word? If you don’t, seek out a niece, nephew, your child or a friends child. Watch, listen and learn. Life has enough serious moments without us purposely adding to the mix. It’s okay to let loose and let your inner child come out and play once in a while. Be silly, dance, sing and laugh a lot. Don’t let anyone dampen your silliness. I did that, it’s wasn’t fun.

Now I play. A lot. Everyday. With my crazy dogs. In the beautiful sea. On my yoga mat. And with my boyfriend. They nourish my quirky side and allow me to be me. Which makes me smile a lot. As a bonus, they’re helping me develop gorgeous laugh lines… much prettier than the frown lines I was working on before.

5. Leap outside your comfort zone

Don’t think. Get like Nike and just do it! Leap, jump, dive into something that takes you outside your comfort zone, something that scares you a little or a lot. I did this when I first arrived in Tulum. Shy, deathly afraid of house parties, I became a bit of a hermit back home. Once my shell started to crack open, I forced myself to do things that took me way outside my comfort zone.

The end result, I became more social. Less afraid to attend parties or events solo. And it was so extraordinarily freeing. Terrifying at times, but once the sweat stopped pouring, I noticed that I was not alone. And no matter what the outcome, I embraced every experience as an opportunity to spread my wings and grow. Amazing things happen when we open the door to life and let our senses explore.

When you step outside your comfort zone and try new things, visit new places, create new adventures, you give back to you ten fold. Embrace what comes up when you take a chance on life. The good with the bad because it will help you grow as a friend, lover, mother or father.

Take charge of your life. If you’re unsatisfied, do something. Your life won’t change unless you create the change. So get things moving, go dance in the rain, kiss your partner deeply, try a new taste, take the road less traveled, open your eyes and drink in the sights. There’s beauty to be found in simplicity.

Make the choice to step up to the bat and hit a ridiculously amazing home run in this fabulously messy thing we call life.

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