The Best Way To Kill Your Spirit

You want to know what the best way to kill your spirit, your creativity and your real self is? Doing a job you don’t love, that has no meaning to you, doing those things you don’t enjoy, over and over again.

This is the quickest and easiest way to move farther and farther away from who you really are, to feel more depressed, more sad and empty as days go by. What can drain your energy more than this? What can be worse than having to wake up every morning to go to a place you don’t like, to interact with people you have nothing in common with, to do the same repetitive and energy draining work over and over again.

If you ask me, this is where most of us get lost, this is where most of us get trapped in a world that is so unfamiliar to us, in a world that is so cold and empty. How many of your friends live like this? How many of the people you know are really unhappy with the work they do but choose to find all kind of excuses and not do anything about it? I personally know so many people of this kind and I have to say that it breaks my heart to watch them.

I don’t believe, I know that we all have something special to share with the world; I know that we all have uniques gifts and talents and if we choose to ignore these gifts and talents in order to do the things that we THINK not FEEL that are best for us, those things that other people have decide are best for us, then, what we are actually doing is moving slowly and surely away from who we are; away from a life of meaning; away from living our life purpose; away from our own right to be happy; away from those things that we are so good at; away from those things that we treasure the most; away from our dreams and passions; away from ourselves.

Don’t let that be you. Don’t let yourself die; don’t let yourself be just another person in a big crowd. Be an example for others, inspire them through your actions; show the world that real happiness can and will be found in doing those things you really love, those things that come naturally to you.

Short term pain will bring long term gain. If for example, you are now caught up in this game, if for example, you are doing a job you don’t love, a job that has no meaning to you, if you will find the inner strengths nd courage to say NO to what is, to say NO to your present situation and to start taking proper action in order to move in the right direction, know that, even though it might be hard at first, even though you will face all kind of challenges, if have the big picture, if you know how you want your life to look like, no challenge will be big enough for you, for you will know that your life is just about to start, and nothing and no one will stand in the way of your happiness.

It helps a lot to see the big picture, to think from the end and to see yourself as being already there, as having everything already set up for you. Have the courage to say NO to what is, have the courage to say NO to average, no to good, in order to say YES to the best, for this is exactly what you will receive once you decide to work on clearing all the garbage that has gathered in your life in all these years.

Don’t kill your spirit; don’t kill your creativity; don’t kill yourself by doing things that have no meaning for you, things that drain your energy, things that keep you stuck and unhappy. You deserve the best, and if you yourself don’t treat yourself like it, don’t expect others to do it for you.

Decide that is time to stand up for yourself, decide that is time to say YES to life, YES to a happiness, YES to a meaningful life, YES to inspiration, YES to creativity, YES to LOVE, YES to abundance, YES to all that is good and all that wants to embrace and enter into your life, and allow it to come your way, allow it to enter into your life.

Be an example for others. The world needs you. Show the whole world that by going confidently in the direction of your dreams, success will have no choice but to follow. It has no choice. Be a source of inspiration, give the best you got and you will receive the very best from life.



Luminita D. Saviuc

Luminita is the Founder and Editor in Chief of and also the author of 15 Things You Should Give Up to Be Happy: An Inspiring Guide to Discovering Effortless Joy. For more details check out the 15 Things You Should Give Up To Be Happy Book Page.

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1 Comment

  • Robin

    at 2:41 am

    Sthatorry, man but jobs don’t grow on trees and bills need paying. Maybe things are bright and rosey where you live, but nowadys you have to have a job to get a job.

    If you’re keeping your family fed, out of a homeless shelter, and have some decent health insurance, that’s pretty damn good, period. A lot of folks are broke who’ve never been broke in their lives, and I’m willing to bet an awful lotof those folks have better skills and more experience than you.

    Your Neverland fairty dust sure looks pretty, but it don’t hold up too well to reality.


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